
The following letter was written by Robert H. Osborn (1837-1864), the orphaned son of Zimri Osborn (1793-1850) and Nancy Hathaway (1805-1857) of Belmont county, Ohio. He was married in 1861 to 15 year-old Emily Lathrop (1846-1892) before he was mustered into Co. C, 6th Iowa Infantry, on 17 July. His references to “Father” and “Mother” in the letter refer to Emily’s parents, Ichabod Lathrop (1814-1896) and Catherine Humphreys (1814-1897) of Hardin county, Iowa.
The letter was datelined from Lafayette Park in St. Louis in early September 1861. The regimental history confirms their presence there: “It was stationed for a time at Jefferson Barracks, then at the United States Arsenal and, later, at Lafayette Park and Benton Barracks. On the 19th of September, 1861, the regiment left Benton Barracks, and was transported by rail to Jefferson City, and from that place started upon an active campaign in the State of Missouri, in which it learned its first severe lesson in marching, and the endurance of hardships.”
In January 1864, Robert reenlisted as a veteran in his company but did not return home to his Emily. He was killed in action on 28 May 1864 at Dallas, Georgia.
T RA N S C R I P T I O N
Camp Jessie
Lafayette Park, Missouri
September 4, 1861
My Dear Companion,
It is with pleasure that I get to converse with you even in this way for it is the only way that we can converse at this time. Emily, I am not very well at present but not so unwell but I am able to get around. Emily, I hope that you are well.
Emily, I am anxious to hear from you for I have wrote you two letters to you and this is the third once since I had got any from you. My dear, I think your letters must have been miss laid on the route for I don’t think you would want me to go so long without hearing from you.
Emily, we have good news of late. First we took 1500 prisoners in two places in Mis. Jeff Davis dead, 400,000 prisoners taken at Washington. I hope these reports is true. Every paper being a good on our side.
Emily, I don’t think it will be long till I can fold my only love in my arms once more. One more sweet kiss from you would pay me for all of my trouble. But I cannot get it now for you are too far off. But I will be close enough as quick as I can. Emily, I wished last night when I got very thirsty that you was here to give me a drink for I did not feel like getting it myself and it seemed to me like if you could give me a drink, it would be worth a thousand that anybody else would give me. Emily, I want to see you all the time but when I get sick, it seems like it will kill me to stay away from you. Emily, I hope that I never will need to part from you again in this world and when parted for the next, that I may go fast for how can I stay if you was gone?
Emily, [General] Fremont has give our Colonel his choice to be stationed here for the war to protect this city. The people of this city made applications to Fremont for us to stay here saying that we was the best soldiers in every respect that had ever been here—the soberest and best behaved, and hearty, robust, and young men in general. We thanked the people for their good opinion. When I said we, I meant our regiment.
[Joseph J.] G. Knoles and J[ohn] Dorte [Dourtey] is about well. J. Dorte and O[zro]. Sawyer is writing letters now.
Emily, what little money I had [has] taken legs and waled out of my pocket—maybe lost it. But that one dollar bill that father got off Frank was not gone. But let it go the way of the world.
Emily, if we left here to protect the city, perhaps we will have to stay here for the three years if peace is made sooner and if we do, will you come and stay with me if I get a good room for us to stay in near to my quarters? If I can come after you in January, let me know the next letter. I am not afraid but you will. I do not want you to come if I think there is any danger here but again we may be disbanded soon after peace is made.
The First Cansis [Kansas] Regiment came here while I am writing. They was in the Springfield fight [at Wilson’s Creek]. They have had pretty hard usage. They say fighting is no fun when you see your best friends lying dead around you.
We had a nice rain night before last, The weather is pleasant. Everything is quiet about town since the martial law has been put in force. I was to church twice last Sabbath. Good sermons. Plenty of citizens to see us. The very best of order. People likes the soldiers. Make many presents to them. Perhaps they are too clever with their print for one’s good. Tell father to read the 9th Chapter of Romans.
Tell father and mother that I would like to see them and tell them about what times we have had for they are too many to write. Tell Elizabeth and Warren they must not spell all of the folks down up there this winter for if they do that I will get after them. Tell Harrison and the rest of them that I would like to see them and have some fun with them.
Emily, I will send you a watch locket. It cost me a ten cent ticket.
Emily, I am tired out writing and I must quit for the present. Emily, please write as soon as this comes to hand for my sake. Your companion, – R. H. Osborn
To my dearest Emily Osborn





