
The following letter were written by David Watson (“Wat”) Conkling (1835-1904), the son of David Conkling (1806-1881) and Almira Ann Watson (1810-1865) of Rensselaerville, Albany county, New York. Wat wrote the letters to Louisa (“Lou”) L. Randall (1841-1903), the daughter of Andrew Jackson Randall (1815-1879) and Juliette King (1815-1892) of Union, Monroe county, New York. The letters were written in the days ahead of Wat & Lou’s marriage on 19 June 1861.
Letter 1
New York
May 28, 1861
My own darling Lou,
Again I am seated to have a nice chat with you, although this talking all to ones self is not always pleasant, for this is the fourth letter I have written you dear and have received but one in reply. I did hope that I should have a letter from you while I was here but as yet have not heard one in two weeks. Yet I hope I may have a letter tonight. Have you been sick darling that you have not written me! or are you so busy you can not get time.
I left home last Thursday and have been here since Friday. I have enjoyed my visit very much although my time has been occupied with business. I have completed my purchases today. We have been buying your Bridal Presents and I think they are splendid.

New York is all excitement about the War. Every day the booming of cannon announces the departure of some regiment for the seat of War. Last Sunday there was a grand procession in honor of the late Colonel Ellsworth who was assassinated at Alexandria by a secessionist named Jackson. Ellsworth was a fine officer and commanded the Chicago Zouaves.
Soldiers are to be seen marching the streets and occasionally you meet a company drumming up recruits marching around the streets with martial music and colors flying. Saturday there was a grand display of military forming a column of five miles in length and four men abroad.
The weather is very fine, being just warm enough to be pleasant.
I shall return home tomorrow which is Wednesday and if I do not get a letter from you before I leave here, I hope to find one on my return home. I sent you a list of friends that I wish you to invite [to our wedding] with their mail address and I wish you to mail them. I will send you an extra 50 for your own use. Invite whoever you think best of your friends and neighbors. Uncle S[tephen] V[an] R[ensselaer] Watson and sister Mollie and Aunt Charlotte from Buffalo and Uncle Williams people will be all of my friends that I think will attend the wedding. The Complimentary Cards I will bring when I come out. I will express the cards to Holley to your father and he can send by the Kendall Stage for them if he chooses to. I will express them Wednesday the 29th instead. I think they will be at Holley on Friday of this week.
Only three short weeks will elapse, darling lover, before you will see me again and then we will not be separated, will we darling Lou? The time seems so very long—does it to you, dearest? I have thought of you almost constantly of late. Do not work too hard, darling girl. I should have sent you some music but I know you have not the time to learn it now. I sent you some papers. Did you receive them? And now, goodbye with one sweet kiss. I will write you Monday if I receive a letter from you this week. Good night dearest Louisa.
As ever yours and yours only, — D. W. Conkling
P. S. Write soon!



Letter 2
Rensselaer Ville, June 9, 1861—(not transcribed)







